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Alright so Im 20 years old. I met a girl on the net, and we had the best connection anyone could possibly have. So we talked to eachother over the phone, and sometimes on the net for about a year, then last month I went to go visit her since she lived in another state. I was excited the whole way over there cause i just wanted to see her faceto face for the first time. So when i got there we had a quick hug and thenshe took me straight to her room, she pulled my pants off as i pulled her pants off, I got an erection but it wasnt very strong. We started getting busy but…my organ would get soft and hard and 5 minutes later i ended up ejaculating…my God, i could see the dissapointment in her eyes. I played it off and told it was just cause i was tired from the plane ride. So the next day we tried again, my organ would erect but it wouldnt be hard, atall virtually. I was so ashamed of myself and didnt understand what happened
Before this, being almost years ago I was perfect, i lasted 3 and a half hours, I knew how to work it, and always gave my partner her orgasm, sex was the one thing i took pride in. But, the last day I was there with her we gave it another shot, this time it had gotten worse, i couldnt erect so she decided to pleasure me orally to see if thatd work, and i got hard after about 2 minutes of her doing it, so we decided to spring into action, I went to put on the condum and before i could getit all the way on, i lost my erection, that day was the worst day of my life.
Ever since then she treated me completely different, there wasnt that tenderness that she had for anymore, nor sexual tension like before we met face to face. I tried telling her that it wasnt that she wasnt beautiful and that it was something physical going on in my body. This problem completely ruined our relationship, everything was and would be perfect if this hadnt happened. So what happened? 2 days she left me for her ex boyfriend, saying that she needed a man that could handle her sexual needs, those words truely broke my heart and honestly it hurt like no other pain ive experienced before.
Im a 20 yeard old man, and Ive been frequently masterbating ever since i knew what it was (so when i was about 12 to now that im 20), within the last 2 years i did more often, sometimes twice a day, and then once the next day, i would do it on a daily bases and then about a year and a half ago while i was masterbating i was about to ejaculate when I felt something in my sack happen, i dont know what it was but i definetly felt something down there and honestly ever since then everythings been different. Whenever i get mad, im only mad for a little bit.
Ive gone to a clinic before and got an ultrasound done and a hormones and testonstrone test and the doctor said everything was fine, but i cant believe that. Ive smoked weed heavily in the past 3 years, and not bowls but ciggarillos worth (1.5 to 2 grams in each rillo), about 2 or 3 per day, I smoked ciggaretes for the last 4 years (but quit 2 weeks ago), I always used to watch porn, alot. This whole last year I havent done much excersise, mainly id just stay at home, and talk to my ex whenever she’d call, and im about 30 pounds over weight. I rectum sometimes feels numb for some reason, and i dont understand why. I really dont know what to do, I never wanted to lose my girlfriend but i did, and there aint no worse feeling in the world, I need to get back to how i was, even if this girl left me I still need to be normal again so i can move on.
I need to find a cure, or atleast know whats wrong with me! Please help me out, I seriously loved my girl and i wanted to make her happy, but this stupid thing messed everything up. Please help me, Lord knows i need help…

In: Erectile Dysfunction, Posted 7 years ago

By: Level Rating Level Rating4 points

2 Answers

Answer #1

Hello And Greetings From Ayurvedic Cure

You are suffering from Erectile dysfunction as you started masturbation so early and then you went on so hard in practicing this ill habit sometimes two times a day as you said.
Avoid masturbation First of all and start with light regular exercise. Take healthy balanced diet. start with low protein diet.
Take Butea superb Gel and Capsules Take one capsule two times a day after meal preferably with milk.
Apply gel on shaft of penis in form of gentle massage so whole of gel is completely absorbed. This will help in strong erections and stamina.

Use regularly for the period of three months for desired results.

Thank you Support

Answers Answered By: Alice Level Rating1717 points
Answer #2

Thanks I really appreciate your answer, but I wanna know if the marijuana had anything to do with it or the cigarretes. I’m also axious to know what happened inside my sack which is still a mystery to me. I hope that all your advice wil get me back to normal, back to how I used to be. I’m taking up boxing and have started walking to see if clearing up my arteries will help. Please help me with this, I already feel like less as it is with my ex having left me for her ex boyfriend, I can’t stand to not be cured…

Answers Answered By: GuateDro Level Rating4 points

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